I decided to video log this because if I could have my way and we were talking about things like this you would be over at my house, we'd be hanging out, having tea, and just chatting.
So here I am in my house, catching up on my laundry pile while chatting with you about some things.
I think every thing I say in here could apply to single guys as well, but since I'm not a guy and have no experience as a guy, I'm not talking to them.
This subject has been on my mind for a while because of lots of different conversations but the help I needed came one Sunday as I stood talking to 2 friends. One is a lovely, beautiful, compassionate, strong, professional single woman. The other, an older Thai woman with her unique perspective on American culture. (It's really hard to tell how old a Thai woman is by the way. They look the exact same from 20 to 60 it seems.) She was telling the other that a man she talked to recently said he's not interested in woman from California because "they all have their plan, and they're not so interested in being a wife, it's just a small part of their plan."
That reminded me of the moment with Aaron that I tell you about in the video and I realized she's right, and found the way to say the rest of it as well.
What do you married woman think? Would you have anything to add as advice to a single woman who wants to get married?
And you single ladies? What do you think?